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UNUSUAL WAYS TO MAKE FRIENDS


Making friends with new people can be a daunting task for a grown adult. Gone are the days when all you had to do was meet someone in the playground, ask if they wanted to trade Pokémon cards and then simply swear your lifelong allegiance to them. 

As an adult , the prospect of walking up to a total stranger and firing up an interesting conversation is enough to bump your greatest fear right off the top of your ‘never in a million years’ list. Thankfully in today’s modern society, there are other less intimidating methods to go about the quest to find new friends.

Online 

People meet romantic partners online every day of the year, so why not meet friends in the same way? Social Media sites such as Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Snapchat and Instant Messenger have opened up a whole new playing field for virtual and social interactions which could grow into thriving friendships. If you prefer to take a more laidback approach to chatting with others online then try Mecca instead. This will not only allow you to chat to other bingo players but you can also enjoy your favourite games at the same time. 

Volunteer Work 

Volunteering your time to help out an organization such as a charity is an easy approach to meet new people. It is actually one of the most popular ways in which to broaden your social horizon and according to a recent survey taken by the team over at Psychology Today, 24% said that volunteering is their favourite method to meet new friends. 

Join a Club 

One of the easiest ways to meet people is to join a club or start taking a class. If you have a passion for art, pottery, literature or sports then begin looking for a club in your area that offers something that appeals to you. This is a great option if you want to meet people with similar interests as yourself and finding a conversation starter shouldn’t be too difficult as students and club members are often encouraged to mingle outside of the classroom too. 

Make People Laugh 

People love to laugh and when you crack a joke, you immediately break any awkward tension that may be lurking between you both. Going out to parties or pubs is the most traditional way to improve your social life. If you find that you have a lot in common with a stranger, keep the conversation going as best you can and don’t be afraid to be yourself. 

Travel 

You can meet a variety of people from different backgrounds and cultures by traveling to new places. Strike up a conversation by simply asking someone for directions, or visit tourist spots and interact with those around you. It is important to be open-minded when traveling. In fact, 'the more open-minded you are, the better your chances are of making new friends,' advises travel blogger Stephanie Be from Huffington Post. Traveling is a fantastic experience and definitely one of the surest ways to start up a life-long friendship. 

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5 comments

  1. Such an interesting post. I was chatting with a girlfriend recently and we realised the only way we've made new friends in the past decade is if one of our current friends gets a new partner or with other parents at the school and thats about it. Might have to join a club and do some volunteer work :)

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  2. This is lovely so true as an expat I found it lobely and hard at first to make friends then I became a mom. It was easier making friends at play groups and as a blogger now online too. Some of my closest friends I have met online through blogging. Really made the UK more like home now.

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  3. As adults making friends can be so much harder than as kids as you say, I think your list is spot on, although I think parents of kids friends is probably the way new people enter my life these days.

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  4. Great tips, I find it so hard to make new friends and most have come from Twitter! x

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  5. great tips. I find the whole making friends thing hard.
    Lx
    Http://workingmummy.blogspot.com

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